Our family is convening in Naples for my mom's 75th birthday, which is Nov. 28. We are having dinner at Roy's on Wed. night, a private family Thanksgiving dinner at the Ritz on Thursday night, and have a reservation on Sat. at Pazzo. For her birthday Friday I have made a reservation at Handsome Harry's. What do people think of all these arrangements (I'm in Washington, DC!), particularly Handsome Harrys? The other possibility they had (we're 20 people!) was Yabba Island Grill . We could do The Grill at the Ritz Carlton, but a steak is a steak, right? Do you need to spend $50 for one when you can spend $30?