Thanks for the replies guys, I agree we're not flying across the world to visit a Westernised hotel complex! Sanur sounds great, but is 3 nights there too much? It seems a bit of a pain going from Gili T to Gili Meno for a night and then back to bali after that with our luggage, so we may just do 3 nights in one hotel.
How did you intend to get back from Meno.
Much depends on what you have had already done on Bali mainland. Doesn't make sense to go to Meno for one night and not sure how you intended getting back to Bali (limited boat services stop at Meno).
The four nights before this spare 3 nights we are in Gili T, so we thought it would be easy to jump over to meno for a night then back to gili t the next morning to catch a boat back to Bali. But thinking that through it is quite a lot of effort so we will probably go straight back to Bali from Gili T