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530 Mel Ave, Palm Springs, CA 92262
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The Desert Bear
3.5 of 5 stars 23 Reviews
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Nantucket Island, Massachusetts
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6 helpful votes 6 helpful votes
“We had hoped for more”
2 of 5 stars Reviewed 5 May 2009
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It'd been a long winter for us on the east coast. The economy presented us with some real pressures this year, so, when we started thinking about the possibility of having a brief vacation, well, we put a lot of thought into it. We've been to Palm Springs a few times and thought we had a fair handle on the town. My partner had been to the Desert Bear for a couple afternoon bear get-togethers several years ago and had a blast. The website talked of new owners and major renovations. I went ahead and made reservations for 4 nights in early March, paying 1 night as a security deposit.

When we arrived and settled in, frankly, some things were off-putting. Renovations were clearly underway, and the place needed them, tho it looked like there had not been any work done on the place in quite some time - it all had the look of a project begun but no longer in progress. Our room was recently worked on, and was OK but very spartan, though not exactly a place for two happy tribesmen to bond in our opinion. Really small, no real place to put our clothes away (no dresser) barely room to turn around. Well, that's one of the dirty little secrets of Palm Springs, you gotta understand that many of the properties were old 50s motels, OK. we could have worked around that. But it just was dismal in the common areas... Clientele was rough. The whole place was rough - half painted walls, exposed lath under unfinished stucco, broken tiles, generally not ready for business. The final straw was the visible open underwater light socket with exposed wiring in the hot tub. We were assured that the power to it had been turned off. But still.. if somebody fumbling to fix the lights trips one wrong circuit breaker it's all over. It was just too sloppy, and there was no excuse for it.

In a sense, it was death by a thousand cuts. We weren't comfortable at all - very disappointed - and the place wasn't cheap - we'd really set aside for this and were crestfallen at the predicament. The owner, who chatted us up to an extent that we felt to be more than a bit much, seemed utterly oblivious to the condition of the place and our obvious discomfort. By the next morning we decided we simply couldn't stay there and decided to move to another place in Palm Springs where, for want of a better phrase I guess, the experience would be more of a true resort. We made the decision before the checkout time of noon and were gone well before then. We didn't just bail; I told both owners politely of our reasons, that our decision wasn't arbitrary or without some consideration and and that we might even be returning on a subsequent trip once they had their act more together.

Understanding the difficulty of renting the room for that night on short notice we offered and agreed to pay for that night, a Sunday. They agreed they would make the adjustment and that was the end of it. We then went on to another resort where we were treated very well, were left alone to enjoy the immaculate premises and could truly and finally relax after a very rough season.

So, imagine our surprise when we learned the owners of the Desert Bear had charged my credit card for the three nights we did not stay. Attempts to reverse the charges have failed, as have attempts to even get a copy of the credit card receipt for the run they made on the card without our authorization. I have purposely not posted a review such as this to provide the Desert Bear with the opportunity to do the right thing, make good, and reverse the charge. However, with no contact and no satisfaction, I feel the necessity to warn my fellow travelers. While the renovations underway may eventually lift the Desert Bear, currently, there are cheaper, better experiences in Palm Springs. In the meantime we would strongly recommend extreme caution when dealing with these guys.

  • Stayed March 2009, travelled as a couple
    • 2 of 5 stars Value
    • 3 of 5 stars Location
    • 2 of 5 stars Rooms
    • 3 of 5 stars Cleanliness
    • 2 of 5 stars Service
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2 helpful votes 2 helpful votes
“Old Hollywood Deco Elegance”
4 of 5 stars Reviewed 21 March 2009
2
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It is clear to see that the owners are putting every dollar they make into re-habing this old Palm Springs era building. I stayed in one of the renovated rooms, an it was just as nice as any other Gay resort in town. I might only suggest better window coverings, especially on the side that faces am empty lot next door. The central courtyard will be elegant when the re-painting is complete and it arches and art-deco facade can not fail to please. The amenities are mostly in place....towels by the pool, an assortment of tanning products, and of course, the wonderful owners. The little things make a resort stay pleasurable, and I would like to see the Bear add DVD players and robes to the rooms...maybe even a couple of bottles of water in the refrigerator marked "compliments of...." This resort may only have 10 rooms, but watch out, it can be "a contender" against the security camera heavy All Worlds or the seedy decay of CCBC.

  • Stayed February 2009, travelled on business
    • 4 of 5 stars Value
    • 4 of 5 stars Location
    • 4 of 5 stars Rooms
    • 5 of 5 stars Cleanliness
    • 5 of 5 stars Service
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Paul Lubin, Owner at The Desert Bear, responded to this review
2 April 2009
Thank you for a great review. I just want to correct two things:

The LCD televisions in each room have built in DVD players.

We provide bottled water and soft drinks for all of our guests at no charge, and they are in the refrigerator in the office.
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Virginia
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2 helpful votes 2 helpful votes
“You Can Do Better for Less”
2 of 5 stars Reviewed 12 December 2008
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The best I can say about this placeis that the rooms are newly renovated and clean. However, it's the little things that will begin to bug you, a king size bed in a tiny room, so tiny that you can't have a chest of drawers in the room or a place to store your luggage. There's very little light in the the room. You have to ask for an extra lamp. The bathrooms have no towel bars or hooks to hang up your shave kits. The pool area is not well kept up and the exterior of the place looks very run down overall. The guys just don't seem to be too interested in doing more than they have to keep the place open. There are much nicer gay b&b's for less and get better, more attentive service.

  • Liked — the room was renovated and decent morning coffee
  • Disliked — the whole rest of the experience from the shoddy exterior, lousy service, pitiful breakfast
  • Stayed November 2008, travelled as a couple
    • 2 of 5 stars Value
    • 4 of 5 stars Location
    • 3 of 5 stars Check-in / front desk
    • 1 of 5 stars Rooms
    • 4 of 5 stars Cleanliness
    • 1 of 5 stars Service
    • 1 of 5 stars Business service (e.g., internet access)
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Paul Lubin, Owner at The Desert Bear, responded to this review
16 December 2008
We have been renovating the hotel over the past two years, and have concentrated on the rooms, altyhough we have done some exterior work. Since our rooms are small, we took a lot into consideration when buying new furniture and renovating the rooms. We tore out the old closets and put in closet organizers that have 8-10 shelves in addition to ample space to hang clothing. There is also plenty of room for luggage. Because of the shelves, we took out the old bulky chests of drawers. The furniture in the rooms is all open and leaves plenty of room to get around. We mounted LCD TV's with built in DVD players to the walls. and the bathrooms were totally remodeled and there are shelving units to place shaving supplies. and there are two very large windows as well as doors with built in miniblinds and glass block windows that let in a tremendous amount of light and there are lights on each night stand. We have a mix of queen studios, king studios and larger rooms with full kitchens. and room renovations have taken priority over teh rest of it. We increased the size of the pool decking and it still needs a final coat of decking compound. The pool has been redone, and a lot of thingfs have taken place.The exterior of the property is in need of a paint job, and we have a new entran ce and signage planned, but getting the rooms done is the top priority, before everything else. As to the comment about our not being interested in more thyan keeping the property going, that particular weekend a couple came in from out of state to have a commitment ceremony which we helped them plan for two months, arranging everything for them and making sure that all of our guests were invited to attend, everyone that attended it had a great time. We take great pride in our commitment to our guests and refer you to our guestbook opn our website as well as other Tro\ip Advisor reviews. We have built up a loyal following and are constantly adding new people to "our family", wit h a return ratio of close to 70 percent. As to the breakfast, we serve a continental breakfast of yogurt, muffins, cakes, cereals, juices and coffee. Sorry to go on so long, but we take great pride in what we have renovated so far, and we look forward to finishing the exterior.
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5 of 5 stars Reviewed 20 June 2008
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We stayed at the Desert Bear for the first time this week. We had a great time unlike many of the gay resorts the guests staying at the Desert Bear all welcomed us when we checked in. The rooms have been remodeled and the hosts Paul & Denny are really great. They helped us find a great restaurant to celebrate our anniversary. We highly recommend the Desert Bear. We can’t wait to come back.

  • Stayed June 2008, travelled as a couple
    • 5 of 5 stars Value
    • 5 of 5 stars Location
    • 5 of 5 stars Check-in / front desk
    • 5 of 5 stars Rooms
    • 5 of 5 stars Cleanliness
    • 5 of 5 stars Service
    • 5 of 5 stars Business service (e.g., internet access)
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“Great again!”
5 of 5 stars Reviewed 13 June 2008
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people found this review helpful

Again Paul and Denny went out of their way to make my trip interesting and total relaxiation!
Of course I always head out too Blame it on Midnight and Shame on the Moon for dinner.
Laying out by the pool and getting a deep tan is what I enjoy the most. My room was cleaned as I requested, all it takes is a "PLEASE"! I have stayed with them now since 2006 (12 trips) and enjoy it more and more each time. Heading back end of July after 3 weeks in Honolulu and Kona! Love it ! :)
They "CARE about their guests and by the way the men are GREAT too .......... If that's your thing! LOL
Enjoy!
As Always, Mark

  • Liked — The pool and my jockstrap tan line! WHOW! :) Also my assistant who lotioned me all day! :)
  • Disliked — I could never find the ice machine! But it was ok the fridge kept my champagne cold!
  • Stayed June 2008, travelled solo
    • 5 of 5 stars Value
    • 5 of 5 stars Location
    • 5 of 5 stars Check-in / front desk
    • 4 of 5 stars Rooms
    • 5 of 5 stars Cleanliness
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    • 3 of 5 stars Business service (e.g., internet access)
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