Burythorpe House is a stunning venue to have a wedding, with truly beautiful surroundings and offers very good food overall. We found the staff to be friendly and accommodating, although at times we did feel they were disorganised on the run up to the wedding, however on the day itself everything ran smoothly.
We must point out that from the day we booked our wedding reception at Burythorpe House and the 9 months that followed, our wedding coordinator changed and the chef also changed 3 times. Although this was no fault of the hotel, unfortunately this lead to a lot of confusion over our wedding menu and some requests that we had made, and we felt this was compounded by the lack of communication from the hotel on the matter.
Our wedding co-ordinator Rachel was good, accommodating to our requests and a really nice person. She did have to take over from our past co-ordinator, which led to some confusion and meant that we did have to chase things up and seek confirmation however we are sure this won’t be an issue going forward.
Our main issue was with our wedding breakfast menu. Creating our own menu was a selling point of this venue for us, however it did not run as smoothly as we would have hoped. We had a meeting with Chef number one, a tasting session with Chef number two and Chef number three, who we never met, cooked the food on the day. Only a matter of weeks before the wedding we still did not have a finalised menu or price per head and were chasing frequently for this. When we had finally agreed on a menu we felt apprehensive and all of the confusion over the issue had resulted in a lot of undue stress and anxiety on the weeks approaching our wedding. On our day the food was delicious overall and well presented. We had beautiful canapés, a wonderful meat eaters wedding breakfast menu and a delicious rustic evening buffet. Our vegetarian option was unfortunately a disappointment and very dissimilar to the dish we had tried and agreed to in the taster session. Also we had requested vegetables to be served with the meal but they did not arrive, so portions did feel a little sparse. Saying this we were happy with the food served and found it to be to a high standard.
We must compliment the staff as they were very fast, efficient and friendly and went above and beyond to make our day flow without a hitch. Even when the groomsman decided to ‘decorate’ the bridal suite, the staff were very quick to sort this out before we had to set eyes on it.
As a bride I chose to stay at Burythorpe House the night before the wedding and it was a beautiful venue for a bridal party to get ready. We had a stunning suite, which made it was very special. I did oversee the preparing of the marquee in the morning and did have to make a few requests as certain elements were not quite right but they were dealt with straight away. I am very relived I was there as had I not been I would have been disappointed when I arrived had these issues not been rectified.
One piece of advice I would pass on to anyone who has booked Burythorpe for their wedding is to make sure you get absolutely everything in writing(even the smallest details), as you do not get the bill until the day after your wedding. There were issues with our bill but thankfully we just pulled out a copy of our correspondence with all the agreed requests and sums and the issues were quickly resolved without any upset.
The hotel rooms are very nice and it is lovely to have exclusive use of the hotel. So much so that we stayed at Burythorpe the night after our wedding and had a very romantic relaxing time in the Newburgh suite, which we would highly recommend. Although it was very cold at times and we did have to call reception a couple of times to request that the heating be put on and for some reason the room received no maid service even though we stayed in the same room for two nights. Maybe they were just leaving the newly weds alone. We had a beautiful evening meal the day after our wedding and the breakfasts were delicious.
All in all we had a fantastic wedding and would like to thank all that helped, Burythorpe House is a beautiful venue to hold a wedding, which on a whole we would recommend, if they can iron out the issues we experienced then we think it will be perfect.
- Burythorpe Hotel Malton
